Who takes decisions in one's life?
I had this notion that I can take decisions concerning me instantly. Whenever I went shopping with my friends, they would take hours to decide what to buy and what not, and I would be through with billing and payment even, by then. Also,I believed that no one could stop me or dictate my decisions.
But it is still difficult for me to pronounce "Decision" clearly [other words being 'delusion','dyslexia', 'entrepreneurship' etc.] and I used to wonder why? Till the time I realised that everything was delusional and inter-connected. I am not as tough and strong headed as I considered myself to be. In the virtual world I may do whatever I have thought of, but reality lies in the terrain unknown. I can neither take decision instantly anymore,nor can I wait for time to do the honours. Basically I'm turning out to be good for nothing.
Apprehensively, I have noticed that many people and circumstances take decisions for me. This present state of doldrums in my mind depicts that. As a result the upturning by products are frustration, irritation,rebel,unhappiness and all malices.
I know that the solution lies only with me but I am scared to take the lead.
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ये एक ऐसा ब्लॉग है जहाँ मैं जब भी जाता हूँ खुश हो कर आता हूँ,
It is only after you take control of your life that you start living. I understand that our environment influences us in diferent ways. What is important is that we are aware of this influence. Once we start assessing it, the free being within us will rise itself and become the verb.
First of all you need to understand what a decision is,comparing a situation in life where you have to make decision for major adjustments in your life, to a day to day activity of buying cloths etc might be comparable for you but from my point of view you should first analyse the situation indepth and then decide. Though you might not feel so but people whom you consider to be hindrance in your decision making right now would always be with you and support you whatever the circumstance may be, its just that they are trying to show you the broader view of practical life. By the way you just need to leave aside your biased feelings while thinking,the rest all would be as simple as buying a kilo of potatoes [:p]
@ kishore
that happiness deviated and uplifted my mood for few minutes.Thank you! :D
@Ankit
I'm waiting for the time when free being within me will rise itself and become the verb.Perhaps,reluctance to do things has resulted into this dependancy.
@Bhaiya
I wish you could have understood my state of mind too, as clearly as you have expressed your opinion. I liked whatever you said. But to me,it seems that is unidirectional advice that you are giving me.
Now considering the point that People being 'hinderance',I never said that I considered anyone wrong or an obstacle to my decision taking process. Till now nearly all decisions in my life were 'influenced'by something or the other. But they were for my good and benefit,no one else's.I have been benefited because so many well wishers are there around me.
Still,you consider my thinking to be a 'biased' one then no one else in the whole wide 'real' world can understand my problems.So I should better stop showing off my griefs and limit it to myself.World would be happier then.
We think so much of the pros and cons before doing things and that plays a vital role in our decisions. Sometimes i think whether the decision i have taken was what i wanted and i get the answer.
World does not depends on individual thinking or problems,and who said that you were showing off your grief? Yes my comments were unwanted but I just wanted to poke you so that you could share your problem a bit more openly so that we could understand your state of mind but i think it worked reverse and forced u to go into ur shell, I am really sorry for that.
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